Friday, November 06, 2009 By Jonathon Simmons
Homophobia kills people. The fear to live and the fear to be who you really are is pure hell.
People at Arrowhead choose to use rude and judgmental slurs “That’s so gay” and “hey, fag” are directed at people who are homosexual. Many famous people have spoken up for those who are afraid to like Rosie O’ Donnell, Wanda Sykes, Ellen DeGeneres, Oprah.
People don’t choose to be gay, bisexual, transgender or a lesbian. It just happens. Some people may think they’re straight at first and have boyfriends or girlfriends, but later in life they end up finding out they are gay or bisexual.
People aren’t taught what homosexuals are or even what is like to be gay or bi. So many people find it so hard to tell their parents about their sexual preference that they drive themselves to the point where they don’t want to live anymore. Homosexuality is a topic that should be taught to kids. Do we really have control over what others are or who they decide to be later in life?
For the longest time, doctors tried to treat homosexuality as a disease, something that is possibly curable. But it’s not. We now know it has something to do with the genes.
Homosexual slurs have been used for the longest even sport s members use them but according to ballhype.com “Chiefs running back Larry Johnson has been suspended indefinitely while the team and the NFL continue to investigate alleged comments made by Johnson in the 24 hours following the Chiefs' 37-7 loss at home to the Chargers.”
I have experienced gay slurs said to me. I have heard everything from, “Hey gay boy” to “What’s up good looking?”, coming from straight guys. Why do people make comments like that when they really aren’t gay? I also have been teased since I was in kindergarten, even when I did not know what being gay was. When I got older, I realized I was different from other people and started looking at pictures of guys and that’s when I figured out that I was bisexual.
Why do we live in such a conservative and non open community? Why do we not teach our kids what homosexuals are and make it okay to be what you are and not try to scare our kids away or kill them inside? We have to educate our kids and not keep them in the dark about everything. So keep the gay slurs at home and live your life with an open mind.