Teenage suicide has increased greatly in recent years, making it the thirdleading cause of death for people ages 15-24 and the fourth for those between 10 and 14. The statistics are alarming, but by being informed, students can help prevent it.

Suicidal feelings can be triggered by a vast array of issues (family history, substance abuse, depression, bullying, and loss of friends or family members, among others). The loss of a friend or family member, due to suicide, can impact everyone who knew them, leaving them lost, confused, angry, or upset. Sadly, it is more common than many people think.

Studies have shown that most completed teen suicides are not necessarily the first attempt. For every suicide that takes place, there have been 25 failed attempts elsewhere (though not neccessarily all by the same person), according to the National Institute of Mental Health. Many of these are left unreported though, and therefore leave the teenager without the proper help and care they need. Teenagers are at a place in their life where their emotions can be on a delicate balance, and it is easy to get thrown offcourse. That often can take a dangerous turn into suicidal thoughts and tendencies.

Though studies show that 4 out of 5 suicidal teenagers show certain signs before taking any drastic actions, not all of the preceding signs are always apparent. It is still important to know and recognize them to further prevent tragic outcomes.

Some of the warning signs to look for in a suicidal young adult are depression, isolated behavior, withdrawing from interaction with friends and family, a sudden drop in grades at school, disinterest in favorite activities, fatigue or lack of energy, loss of sleep, change in eating habits, changes in physical appearance, frequent emotional outbursts, physical complaints, reckless behavior, and substance abuse.

Guidance counselor Joyce Brown has witnessed these signs firsthand in her years as a counselor. She has had both students who have come to her for help with suicidal thoughts, as well as those who have been recommended by teachers to see her about it. Two of the most serious signs, according to her, are actually saying that they want to or have plans to kill themselves, and giving possessions away to friends or family. “Unless they’re thinking about it, they’re not going to say it,” Brown said. “If they have a plan, they’re serious.”

Some of the other grave signs of suicidal tendencies include: alluding to the fact that they won’t be around anymore, throwing out or giving away treasured possessions, creating suicide notes, or expressing bizarre or unrelated thoughts while in a conversation.

Some people may even seem extremely cheerful or uplifted after periods of sadness and depression, in regards to the fact that they have found an outlet or “solution” through plans of suicide.

It is the job of friends and family members to talk to someone and help that person get the help they need to get through the difficulties they may face during their hard times. Though it may be hard, it is absolutely crucial.

“If they bring it up, don’t just fluff it off,” Brown said. “Talk to them about it. [Ask questions like] ‘Why do you want to commit suicide? What do you think will happen if you do?’”

Any mention of suicidal thoughts is serious and needs to be addresses immediately. Through
knowledge of the signs, good communication, and the opportunity to talk to a parent or counselor, suicide can be prevented and lives can be saved.