Q: What do you do to lose weight?

Sincerely, “Burdened”

A: Exercising and eating responsibly are just factors of this goal. It would suit you best to set a routine to follow daily. Results may not appear as rapidly as you would like, but that is something you need to remember. Have a goal that is reasonable and that also doesn’t risk your health. Overall be happy with results and don’t let others influence you by losing a couple of more pounds.

Q: How do I get a guy who really likes me to get the hint that I don’t like him?

Thanks, “Feelings”

A: Some boys are just clueless. They tend to ignore the signals you give off. This may not be a positive thing for you, but it most likely is for him. Often when a person likes someone, they tend to do everything that is possible to try to make a “more than a friend” relationship. How would you feel if you were in their place?

Q: Why are boys so stupid?

A: “Dear Boy Hater,” Not all boys are stupid. They come in many different levels of intelligence.

Q: What way is good to balance school, sports, and a boyfriend?

Thanks, “Busy Bee”

A: Balancing school, sports, and a boyfriend is a struggle for some. Others tend to take it on as just another part of life. All three things require commitment and one hundred percent of your effort, so remember to give it your all. At times it will get overwhelming, but you will be beyond it before you know it.

Q: What’s the right thing to say to my girlfriend after we have been fighting?

Sincerely, “Overcoming”

A: Saying sorry whether you are at fault or she is will be the best thing to do. It would make her feel as if you do care, but if you’re not feeling sorry then do not lie. Fighting in a relationship usually happens over something small, so make sure you talk the problem out.

Q: What can you do when you want to help somebody so bad, but there is no help?

Sincerely, “Hero”

A: Dear “Hero,” you cannot help anyone unless they want help. Help can be found in many places if you ask, just look for it. You could also try to help them by what you know. It might just make a greater impact on their lives.