We all know that prom night is one of the most important days of our high school career. You know what you are wearing and you know when to get there. You even know how you are going to arrive—in style, of course. But do you know where the relationship with your prom date is headed?

The answer can mean the difference between a good time and a great time, and the stage of your relationship should dictate how you approach your special night. All of us want prom to be the night we will never forget, so to start out on the right foot, identify your situation and follow your prom night game plan:

True Romance

You’re in a serious relationship with your prom date.

The Plan: Relax; this is the person you want to be with. There’s no reason to be nervous or worry about how the evening will go. If you have fun together in jeans and sandals, you’ll have a blast in a dress and tuxedo. It’s a big night, but you’re still the same couple. So enjoy it, and make sure you smile for the photos!

New Romance

You’ve just started dating, but the prom is a serious event. Is it too much too soon?

The Plan: Don’t put any unnecessary pressure on yourself or the relationship. Taking everything too seriously is a good way to cool off a new romance. Even though prom is a meaningful event, keep things light and fun. Just like your normal dates. But stay open-minded enough to seize a magical moment, if and when it appears. The right approach might just take your relationship to the next level.

No Romance

You’re going with a friend whom you like but it’s not a romantic thing.

The Plan: A friend is someone you enjoy spending time with, and going to the prom together should be no different. This should be a stress-free evening with a friend, so don’t put any extra pressure on yourself or your date. Even if you’re not romantically involved, you can have a special and memorable evening together. And keep in mind that great relationships can begin on prom night too. Keep an open mind, and you might be surprised how much fun you have. It might turn into more than either of you expected.