The Magnet Tribune
The Perfect Guy Thursday, December 08, 2011 By Elizabeth Flores
Being in love... what a great feeling, that moment when butterflies start flying in your stomach or you can’t control acting shy in front of that special someone… yeah makes you feel like you’re floating? But having someone to love doesn’t mean it’s your property. Having control of your relationship doesn’t get you any ware; you lose friends and gain enemies, and being the one controlled is just really tough. Young love can be very complicated, other girls crushing on your boyfriend or him having a couple of friends that you just don’t like can get you really frustrated. But how far would you go to make yourself the only person that he can trust or love? Would you go that far to say “Don’t leave me or I die”? Think about it… he may be with you but does he really love you? Maybe he’s with you because he feels that you mean it and is scared that you might do something to him, or even worst to yourself. Being in love can be the best feeling ever but when the only thing that is left to feel that lost love is threaten him, then it’s just not worth fighting for. Suicide is not the good way to escape your problems and killing someone can just cause you more. Think about it: you may love him but if love isn’t there why even bother to be together. He isn’t the only person out there, a lot of people are willing to give you there love but you just have to find who. Family, friends, counselors and teachers are there for you what else are you looking for? Don’t worry about finding “The Perfect Guy” right away because you’re going to make more than one wrong turn in your path thru before you find him. But forget about that, you’re a teen now and you have a lot of things to experience before you can be perfect.